Dating After Divorce

Has dating again post divorce been triggering? If so, I can totally relate.

I was coached that dating apps was a good beginning. It was immediately triggering because he would shop for women on adult sites swiping the same way. I know physical attraction is important but that was certainly the first hurdle I faced.

I also didn’t know if I could ever be physically attracted to anyone other than my husband. I had found “the love of my life” and had no desire to look elsewhere yet he had been for years.

Being on dates was painful because I knew he had been talking, texting, courting, flirting, meeting and engaging in a physical, emotion and sexual relationship with girls and then would come home to me, his wife. I could not relate or understand at all because I had a hard time accepting and separating from the guilt of just being on a date in public and I was legally a single woman.

If you are struggling working through this new time, I can totally relate. There is a process of change.

I would love to help because I absolutely have been there and understand.

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