Today we are beyond thankful for the hard. At one time, our divorces were soul crushing and we both couldn’t understand how this could be our reality. Now, having them abandon what was has been one of the greatest blessings of our lives.

Now we get to choose our path and we’ve both worked really hard in our healing. In that process we are reminded of who we are and what we have always fought for. We are still us, just more refined with a clearer lens and more empathy for those that travel our similar road.

I love that neither Mark or I needed anyone but finding and being together has only enhanced us as a couple. I am constantly impressed with all that Mark is, chooses and stands for. We have gratitude for our divorces because it gave us the opportunity to find eachother and build a life together.

These last few months have been filled with so much extra appreciation for divorce so we can have these many magical moments together as partners and with our woven family. We wouldn’t want all that has been any other way. We both are able to live more true to who we are and that’s a miracle with a lot of blessings. This is exactly how we have always wanted it but didn’t believe it could ever be.

And now we know this was how it was always meant to be. I know God is very aware of us and our timing and now we love being able to say, “It was totally ALL worth it and we would do it again to be where we are now.”

We didn’t always believe this but had at times just a sliver of hope that kept us putting one foot in front of the other.

Was there a time when hope was the only thing that gave you the courage and strength to accelerate forward?

What do you value more now with your refined perspective?

I hope you have an amazing Thanksgiving Day and can find hope in your hard. Huge hugs!

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